It\'s a real stretch! But my God, how very good it feels. Extremely smooth, nicely weighted. If you\'re intermediate to advanced anal play level this is for you. The first time you manage to get it up your ass it feels like you are being ripped in half. But them you want more. After you abuse your hole with it for a while then you can\'t do without it. Hold it in then push it out for a great rosebud. Excellent. Mine arrived bent. It doesn\'t stand up on its own, nothing to bad but hence the 4 stars. Apart from this it\'s a 5+ stars!